I am in the midst of making one of those decisions and it seems that all I can focus on are the cons instead of the pros. Due to this I am in a constant state of stress and worry about whether I am doing the right thing for my family.
I have come to understand that I am not good at dealing with change. I like routine and schedules. I want to make this change and think that in the long run it will be for the benefit of my family. I am struggling with keeping the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow in sight. Talking to friends and family has helped, but in the end they cannot make the decision for me. All I can hope for is their support.
To help ease my mind about whether making this decision is the right one or not I browsed through a few online articles. One that I found helpful was titled, "7 Questions You Should Ask Yourself When Faced With A Tough Decision In Life." www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/7-questions-you-should-ask-yourself-when-faced-with-tough-decision-life.html
The first two questions really helped me out; 1. If I don't do this now, will I regret it? 2. What am I afraid of? In the end, life is an adventure, we only get one, decisions can be reversible.
Thought of the day: Is a sleeping bull a bull-dozer?
Quote of the day: The most important thing is to enjoy your life-to be happy- it's all that matters. Audrey Hepburn